She is not a teenager anymore...
When be faced by a reality...
It did not yet get the beloved...
That was craved uptil now...
When the standard of the choice...
Could not again like previously...
And the meaning of the love...
Not merely the courtesy...
If marrying only a symbol...
Possibly all that still not the problem...
However the age continued to improve...
And will become the burden of thoughts....
But such was lived...
Always did not go in accordance with the wish...
Indeed was not easy chose...
And took the decision...
Moreover if being restricted by time.
When be faced by a reality...
It did not yet get the beloved...
That was craved uptil now...
When the standard of the choice...
Could not again like previously...
And the meaning of the love...
Not merely the courtesy...
If marrying only a symbol...
Possibly all that still not the problem...
However the age continued to improve...
And will become the burden of thoughts....
But such was lived...
Always did not go in accordance with the wish...
Indeed was not easy chose...
And took the decision...
Moreover if being restricted by time.
Comments
harusnya marriage bukan hanya simbol ya
tapi bagi sebagian orang, ternyata cuma simbol.
jadi bertanya tanya,,,
wondering........
sesulit itukah menjalani "merriage"
Apakah sesulit itu ?.........
sesulit itu kah???
disamping itu lebih tentram karena jiwa sudah menemukan pasangannya.. ga lagi pengen nyari kemana2 heheheh
hidup juga lebih terarah, karena sudah ada tanggung jawab dan tugas yang harus dipikul
juga ada yang mengingatkan kalo pas kita salah dari tujuan
itu teori nya (tapi belom aku laksanakan)
:D
@Arif : sudah tapi belom ada yg mau hehehe
@Elok : sama kamu ya hehehe
@Kurniawan :iya kalau mau menuruti sunnah pasti menikah itu bukan masalah :)
@Fitri ,Eyang dan Elsa: menikah itu mudah jika hanya sekedar mencari status (simbol), tapi akan jadi sulit atau rumit karena kadang "kita" n "keluarga" punya standar tersendiri dalam menentukan calon pasangan kita hingga tanpa disadari usia terus bertambah :)
@Inge : iya rumit karena "keinginan" kita sendiri :)
@Exort : makanya jaman skrg byk artis males nikah soalnya takut dgn tanggung jawab dan selama kebutuhan seks terpenuhi :)
@Clara : such was the lived :)
@Rosi : hmmm kalau itu menurutku karena faktor ortunya si Ulfa :)
@Pelangi : hmmm selama itu "baik" mgkn gak salah diikuti hehehe
@Soesan : intinya memang kadang tidak terduga ya sist :)
@Fitri : it's ok kita disini semua utk berbagi :)
@BEI : amiin :)
@Edwins : yah "dibatasi oleh waktu" :)
@Anggi : seharusnya begitu :)
@THe others : bener mbak :)
@Catatan kecil : ya mbak :)
@Fanny : take us out yak hihihi
selamat hari jumat, mas..
semoga hari ini menyenangkan :D
Happy weekend!!
@Ajeng : itulah yg sulit dilakukan "istiqomah" dan "keikhlasan" terutama jika pola pikir ttg berumah tangga masih didominasi "materi" n "Zohir" :) (kok jadi jawab panjang x tinggi yak hihihihi)
@Buwel : yak mirip spt sajak achen itu intina :)
@Achen : dah gak usah bingung, langsung lamar aja si Ney heheheh